My biggest issue with one of these rules when I first got sober was on a sweltering Phoenix summer day while sitting in rehab last August.Admittedly, how and where I was going to meet girls when I successfully completed this 90 day transformation from drugs and alcohol should have been the last thing on my mind.The profile section of the app even includes a sobriety date and a place to briefly admit your substance abuse struggles.The creator of Sober, Antoine Nauleau, is a 21-year-old former addict.After dating one dud after another, you finally find someone who seems to have it all – thoughtful, witty, responsible – and good-looking to boot.Then they drop a bomb: “I used to be a drug addict.” They may as well have said, “I’m married.” But does one partner being in recovery automatically spell doom for a relationship?” For the recovering addict, this obviously won’t work.Finding someone who understands what you’re going through can be very challenging.
They don’t need to be taken care of; they learned how to do that for themselves.
One thing I know for sure is that I don't know anything. I guess I'm trying to say is that I have heard some people say that they have used dating sites and things turned out great. I've met a few relationships f2f and it didn't turn out so good either, so I sure can't advise anyone on that score. Hi all, I was giving this some thought after carefully reading the responses.
After I got up off the floor from laughing so hard - really.
I think there are a lot of great things you hear in early sobriety, especially in 12 step meetings.
However, much like organized religion, things are sometimes gravely misinterpreted and taken out of context in some of these anonymous groups.