But I've learned that those romantic conventions don't work when you are trying to date a queer person.The dynamic of two men being together IS DIFFERENT.Quite honestly, *most* people don't really care, and this makes you feel awesome.And if they *do* care, you hold hands even tighter (if it is safe to do so). "So we met one Friday-night drinks and..."The tenth time? You even start automatically giving yourself constructive criticism according to how they react. I don't even know what I'm having for dinner yet.""Would you have a conventional wedding or a different wedding?And because I believe everyone deserves lasting love in their lives, I’ve made a point of reaching out to the gay community to offer my help and my services.
Given that, my first bit of advice is for everyone, no matter which side of the plate they swing from: Don’t Overcomplicate Things!It’s true with relationships, and generally, I find also true with life.So, for the sake of not overcomplicating things or reinventing the wheel…I’m here to tell you that finding a mate is far more simple than you probably think it is.When you are a gay man in your twenties, dating can be an all-around horrible experience.Buzz Feed reached out to some of those gay twentysomethings to tell us some of their difficulties when trying to date.